The Four Agreements is built around the idea that many of us live our lives based on agreements we’ve made with ourselves, our families, society, and the world.
These agreements shape our behaviors, thoughts, and actions, often without us realizing it. Ruiz emphasizes that by changing these agreements, we can transform our perception of reality and attain true freedom.
The four agreements presented in the book are:
1. Be Impeccable with Your Word
Speak with integrity and say only what you mean. Avoid using words to speak against yourself or others. Your words have power, and by choosing them wisely, you can create a positive impact on your life and those around you.
2. Don’t Take Anything Personally
What others say and do is a reflection of their own reality, not yours. When you stop taking things personally, you free yourself from unnecessary suffering and emotional turmoil. This allows you to maintain inner peace and not be swayed by external judgments.
